As the phrase goes, life is not easy at all, and we are not all in the same stages
A few days ago, together with my group of friends, we realized how strange twenties are.
There are those who study, the ninis, those who study and work, graduates, married people, those with children, those with a boyfriend, single people, partiers, those who feel left behind and countless other options.
Within this, we are also all of us wishing to be the one next door, that typical comment of “oh, but you who (at ease / father / adjective) because …” and they fill it with what the other friend is experiencing.
For example, for the one who is working: “but you what father because you already have your little money and your routine”, on the contrary, for the one who does not study or work: “but you what father because you have so much time in your hands and you can do and go wherever you want ”.
In the same way all the options that I gave at the beginning. For all this I came across this quote that reads like this: “Marriage is difficult. Divorce is difficult. Choose your difficult.
Obesity is tough. Being in shape is difficult. Choose your difficult. Being in debt is difficult. Being financially disciplined is difficult. Choose your difficult.
Communication is difficult. Not communicating is difficult. Choose your difficult.
Life will never be easy. It will always be difficult. But we can choose our difficulty. Choose wisely.
For this, I realized how as well as in my group of friends of 20, where we are all in different situations; happily or not, it is up to us to find, or rather, to choose our difficult.
As the phrase says, life is not easy at all, and we are not all in the same stages, but something yes, each one chooses the challenges of life they want to lead (and since we are in these, we must repeat ourselves that we are not we are nobody to judge the decisions of the other).
So this week is just a reminder to everyone that we UNDERSTAND YOU. Life is not easy, so you have to choose correctly.
“Life will never be easy. It will always be difficult. But we can choose our difficulty. Choose wisely ”, Ana en Rose.